it’s my passion to help individuals and couples recognize, understand, and work through their relationship and sexual challenges. In a confidential and supportive environment, I offer space for open conversations within couples therapy and mutual growth. My work focuses on interpersonal communication within relationships, rebuilding closeness, intimacy, and connection, and fostering a fulfilling sex life.
with individual challenges and strengthening connection.
sexual issues and enriching sexual experiences.
on low libido, erectile dysfunction, orgasm difficulties, and sexual dysfunctions.
various therapeutic approaches and methods.
communication and constructive conflict resolution.
intimacy within the relationship.
Discover how you can deepen your relationship dynamic through clear and open communication. In a safe environment, you will learn to renegotiate old boundaries, express your desires and share fantasies respectfully. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced kinkster, this workshop offers you practical tools and new impulses for more trust, intimacy and adventure.
Generally speaking, sex therapy or sexual counseling addresses questions or issues related to sexuality. There are various approaches and methods for how a therapy or counseling process can look and unfold.
My services are aimed at individuals and people in relationship*s (regardless of sexual orientation) who are dissatisfied with their sex lives, have questions about their sexuality, or experience sexual dysfunctions. It’s important to me that my clients understand and become aware that my counseling is not solely about resolving dysfunctions so that sexuality “works” again. Rather, it’s also about developing an awareness of where a potential issue may stem from. I encourage my clients to grow sexually and to become more aware of their neglected sexual desires and needs. Learning how to express these needs clearly and lovingly, without shame or hesitation, can pave the way for personal and relational growth that extends beyond sexuality.
In every couples counseling session, the relationship takes center stage—it’s essentially the “patient.” Couples therapy or counseling is particularly beneficial when partners feel that something is off, are uncomfortable or dissatisfied in their relationship, and seek change but are unable to achieve it on their own. Often, the discussions revolve around communication issues, conflicts, hurt feelings, and ongoing disputes that affect both partners and the relationship itself.
For the counseling process to be effective, it is crucial that all parties involved come with a willingness to work on themselves and the relationship.
In individual sessions, the focus is on our relationship with ourselves. It’s about our inner world and the potential inconsistencies we sense and feel but can’t quite articulate. The causes of these feelings can be diverse, ranging from overwhelming everyday stress and frustrations or stagnation at work to a lack of desire and passion in our personal lives. One of the key success factors in any therapy, counseling, or coaching setting is the personal willingness to confront oneself and engage fully in the process.
Ehrenfeld – one of the city’s trendiest districts. The path leads you through a large, brown gate into a charming backyard, whose creative flair offers a glimpse into the hidden side of the city. Not only has a local artist set up his workshop here, but the wall of the house is also a real crowd-puller: The famous Belgian street artist Roa has immortalized his striking suspended rabbit here, leaving an impressive mark. This artful touch makes the backyard a real Ehrenfeld highlight and invites you to marvel.
This work of art has long since become an integral part of city tours, and it is not uncommon for crowds of people to gather in front of the house wall to take photos – an urban microcosm that beats at the creative heart of Ehrenfeld.
Between disco balls, cozy hanging chairs and warm light, I offer you a safe space in which we can focus entirely on you, your topics and your needs. The relaxed, creative environment of the backyard is reflected in my work – a place where you can feel safe and inspired.
Whether you enter my practice to find new ways for your relationships, to create more intimacy, to explore your sexuality, or to get in touch with yourself – this place is made for you to arrive and unfold – this place offers you the peace and inspiration to find your own path.
The initial consultation provides you with the opportunity to get to know me and determine if I am the right couples and sex therapist for your needs. For me, it’s a chance to better understand you and gain initial insight into your concerns.
As a couples therapist, I place great importance on supporting you in improving communication with each other and constructively resolving conflicts to strengthen your connection. Together, we will work on identifying your individual challenges and finding solutions that deepen your emotional bond and enhance intimacy in your partnership.
In the realm of sex therapy, I focus on helping you address sexual issues and enrich your sexual experiences. I integrate various therapeutic approaches and techniques to tailor my support to your specific needs and further deepen the intimacy in your relationship.
It’s important to note that every couples therapy session is unique, and the exact course will be influenced by various factors. My goal is to create a supportive and safe environment where you can communicate openly, allowing us to work together on your challenges.
I look forward to supporting you on this meaningful journey!
Through the initial consultation, many things will already become clear, and I will know whether collaboration is appropriate or not. Of course, every process also depends on one’s own willingness and readiness for positive change. I have supported and accompanied many individuals and couples, and by the end of the first session, you will feel whether it resonates with you or not.
Often, simply switching roles can help, where one doesn’t talk about oneself but rather about another person with sexual questions or concerns. By temporarily dissociating from our own identity, it becomes easier to let go of our shame, allowing us to handle uncomfortable topics more easily and discuss them.
Another approach could be to first delve into the uncomfortable feeling itself. Why do sexual topics trigger discomfort in me? Where does my shame come from? Then, at a later point, when it feels right, one could transition to discussing these topics.
No, I do not offer nude Tantra courses. All coaching sessions are conducted with both myself and my clients fully clothed.
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Jessica Kugler
Rheinischer Ring 41
53844 Troisdorf